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Born:
September 29, 1919 in Flint, Genesee, Michigan, U.S.A. |
Paul Evert Parks, circa 1945
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Died:
March 21, 1987 in Flint, Genesee, Michigan, U.S.A. |
Occupation:
Truck
Driver |
Married:
Elizabeth Jane Krause, January 7, 1941 |
Children:
Dian Elizabeth, born July 3, 1941
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Married:
Virginia
Arlene Vliet on December 24, 1944 |
Children:
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Larry
Jack, born April 1, 1945 |
Guy
Jim, born November 15, 1946 |
Shirley
Ann, born November 25, 1948 |
Sandra
Kay, born March 28, 1950 |
Darcy
Lynn, born December 17, 1951 |
Vickie
Jo, born July 10, 1953 |
Childhood
Paul Evert Parks was born September 29, 1919 with three thumbs
in the city of Flint in Genesee County Michigan to George
Lewis Parks and Marie-Louise Angelina (Handfield). He was
youngest of six brothers, Prosper, Albert, George R., Joseph,
and Gerald Parks. The family lived at 1310 Walker Street in
Flint.
While
little is known about his childhood, he did recount stories
to his children about his adventures "riding the rails"
- hitching rides on various trains and travelling to all parts
of the country. He told his children that he wore a leather
belt and he would secure himself with a rope to the tops of
box cars!
Paul's
nephew Warren, the only son of Paul's oldest brother Prosper,
recalled that his Uncle Paul (who was around 14 years old)
taught him to bat a baseball when Warren visited Grandma Angeline.
In
1937, he registered for the Selective Service, but was denied
service in World War II because of a spot on his lung. The
1938-39 Flint City Directory listed him as a Laborer and had
him still living at 1310 Walker Street.
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Paul Evert Parks,1935
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Paul
Evert Parks, 1937
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Paul
Evert Parks, circa 1939
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1310
Walker St.
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Betty
Jane Krause and the birth of Dian
Paul met Elizabeth "Betty" Jane Krause sometime
before October 1940. It is not known how or where they met.
Paul and Betty Jane were married on January 7, 1941 in Flint,
Michigan by the Justice of Peace on Maple Road, just outside
of Flint. He was 21 years old, living at his parents home
and working as a gas station attendant. She was 18, not working
and living at 525 Garland Street in downtown Flint. (Because
Betty Jane was not working, it is likely that 525 Garland
Street was the home of a friend. Betty Jane was known to live
with friends as the whereabouts of her parents is not known).
The 1941-42 Flint City Directory listed Paul as a Truck
Driver and had him living at 1310 Walker Street (his parents'
home). Assuming this was published in late 1941, it is likely
that Paul and Betty Jane lived together at Paul's parents'
home after they were married.
On
July 3, 1941, Betty gave birth to Dian Elizabeth, who was
named after a character in the 1937 film Seventh
Heaven, starring James Stewart and Simone Simon. The romantic
war drama was a favorite of Paul's. At the time of Dian's
birth, Betty Jane listed 525 Garland Street as her residence.
This could indicate that she and Paul may have been separated
at the time Dian was born. Little is known about what transpired
over the next ten months, but by early 1942, it is known that
Paul and Betty had indeed separated.
Paul
& Betty Jane Parks relationship 1942-44
Click
here to view a history of Paul and Betty Jane's relationship
during their separation.
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Paul & Dian, Aug. 26, 1941
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Dian, circa 1942
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Mobilgas Station, circa 1942
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Angeline
& Dian, circa 1942
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Dian & Paul, circa 1942
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Dian, circa 1943
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Virginia
Vliet and the births of Larry and Guy
By July 1943, Paul had met Virginia Arlene Vliet. Paul married
Virginia on December 24, 1944 and moved with her and Dian
into an apartment on the corner of Saginaw and 8th Streets
in Flint. Sometime between early 1945 and 1946, Paul, Virginia,
and Dian moved to a home at 1343 Decamp Street.
During
this time period, Paul took a job at the Fisher Body plant
of General Motors. He worked on the production line at first,
but he did not like the confinement of working inside and
found the work boring. He later worked for Fisher Body as
a Truck Driver, which he liked much more.
In
April 1945, Virginia gave birth to their first child, a boy.
Paul wanted to name him Chico after the other main character
in his favorite movie Seventh
Heaven, but Virginia would have nothing of it. They named
their first son Larry Jack, after Virginia's younger brother,
Jack. In
the fall of 1946, Dian started kindergarten at Greenly school
and on November 15, 1946, Virginia gave birth to her second
son, Guy Jim named after her other brother, Jim.
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Fishing, July 30, 1943
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Wedding
Day, Dec. 24, 1944
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Virginia, Dian, Larry & Paul, June 1945
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Decamp St., circa 1946
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Paul,
May 13, 1946
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Guy Jim Parks, circa 1947
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The Pinehurst years
Sometime before the fall of 1947, the Parks family
moved to 1102 Pinehurst Street in Flint. Dian started the
1st grade at McKinley Elementary School. The family would
live there for the next twelve years.
In
1948, Paul was laid off from Fisher Body at which time he
went to work as a driver for Beebe Transfer, a local trucking
company that supplied shipping services to General Motors
plants. Paul would make deliveries between the local GM plants
as well as throughout the state of Michigan. Later that year,
on November 28, Virginia gave birth to Shirley Ann, the first
of four daughters who would join the family on Pinehurst.
On March 28, 1950, Virginia gave birth to her second daughter,
Sandra Kay. Paul was frequently on the road and wasn't always
home when Virginia went into labor. So, Virginia would call
her brother Ralph who would baby sit the kids, while his friend
Huey took Virginia to the hospital!
For Christmas 1950, Paul and Virginia bought each of the kids
a new bicycle. Paul could hardly contain his excitement. So,
he asked Dian if she could keep a secret. She said yes, so
he took her upstairs to the storage room and showed her the
new bikes. Dian was very excited, but Paul reminded her that
it would be their secret and that she should not tell the
other children. Dian never said a word. Fifty years later,
Dian recounted the story to her brothers and sisters who each
admitted that they too were taken by Paul to see the bikes
and sworn to secrecy. None of them ever said a word.
By
Christmas 1951, the family had grown again as Virginia gave
birth to Darcy Lynn on December 17. On July 10, 1953, the
family was completed when Virginia gave birth to Vickie Jo.
Paul
liked to take the kids one at a time with him for the day
on his road trips. On one trip around 1953, he took Dian with
him to Cadillac, Michigan. During the trip, the truck's universal
joint broke and Paul and Dian were stranded a few miles outside
of Cadillac. Paul and Dian had to hitchhike into town. They
were picked up by a farmer who put Paul and Dian in the back
of his panel truck among crates of live chickens. Once in
town, Paul used all of his money to have the truck fixed.
With no money, nothing to eat and no place to stay, they spent
the night in the truck. The next morning, they made the delivery.
After the delivery, Paul came back to the truck and asked
Dian to keep a secret. He had "found" a $20 bill!
They went straight to a restaurant where Paul told Dian to
order anything she wanted. They feasted and with stomachs
full, they came home.
While
Virginia would never let Paul name one of their children Chico,
Paul did succeed in adding a "Chico" to the family.
Around this time, the family got their first dog, a Cocker
Spaniel, who Paul proudly named Chico.
The
family purchased their first television while living on Pinehurst,
a small black & white model. Dian remembers anticipating
it arriving while she was at school and that when she got
home from school, it was there and Virginia was watching Kate
Smith sing on TV. Paul enjoyed watching the Friday night fights.
The
years on Pinehurst were a happy time for the Parks family.
They loved to listen to the radio, including Amos and Andy
and the Jack Benny show. During summers, the family would
spend weekends at Myers Lake, where they would pack a picnic
lunch and the kids played at the beach. There was a small
amusement park with ferris wheel and a few rides as well as
a roller rink. The Parks family also spent a lot of time with
Virginia's brothers and sister and their families, listening
to music, drinking, and playing cards. The family would also
vacation on Houghton Lake.
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Dian on Myers Lake Ferris Wheel, circa 1949
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Guy,
Larry, Dian and cousin Kay, circa 1950
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Beebe
Trfr Truck, 6-27-51
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Secret Bikes, Summer 1951
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Guy, first day of kindergarten?, circa 1952
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Grandma Angeline, Virginia and children, circa 1952
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Paul,
Darcy, circa 1955
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Parks children, circa 1955
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Parks children, circa 1955
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Paul and Larry, Aug, 1956
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Pillow Fight!, circa 1956
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Parks Family, circa 1957
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Tough times
In 1958, the Parks family moved from Pinehurst to 3315 Van Slyke
Road in Flint township. It is believed that this coincided with
Paul losing his job with Beebe Transfer when the company went
out of business. Money was tight and times were tough and stressful.
To compound their problems, Paul broke his leg slipping on ice
on New Year's Eve and was unable to work at all. The family
had to resort to Welfare support until Paul was able to work
again. The family went to local farms for potatoes and field
corn for food. Although Paul did not like her to work, Virginia
took a job as a checker at a local grocery store to help support
the family. Eventually, they came through the tough times and
Paul landed a job driving for Anderson Tank Company. Anderson
transported large container tanks. |
Paul & children, circa 1958
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Home
away from home, 1959
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Vickie,
Dian, Shirley, Darcy
Myers Lake, 07-1959
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Dian's Graduation, 1959
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Father in Law and Grandfather
In 1961, Paul and family moved to Bristol Road in Flint township.
On August 2, 1962, Dian married Dennis Kish of South Bend,
Indiana and moved out of their home. Larry and Guy graduated
from Swartz Creek high school in 1963? and 1964?, respectively.
On April 18, 1963, Paul became a Grandfather as Dian gave
birth to Dennis George Kish, Jr. On October 3, 1964, Paul's
second grandson, David Lee Kish, was born.
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08-02-1962
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Grandsons Dennis &
David Kish, 08-1965
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Larry's Graduation, 1963?
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Guy's Graduation, 1964?
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Last Stop - Meade Street
Around
1965, the State condemned the Bristol Road home in order to
build an on ramp for Interstate 69 and Paul and family had
to move. After the financing for a home in Winchester Village,
Swartz Creek fell through, they purchased a home at 526 S.
Meade Street in Flint. Shirley, Sandy, Darcy and Vickie started
attending Flint Central High School.
In 1966, Guy was drafted and began his service in the Vietnam
War.
Larry
moved out of home, 196?.
Shirley
graduated in 1967?
On
January 30, 1967, Paul's first granddaughter was born as Dian
gave birth to Darcy Louise.
Sandy graduated in 1969.
Shirley's
marriage 1969.
Darcy
graduated in 1970.
Vickie
graduated in 1971.
Darcy's
marriage 1972
Vickie's marriage 1974
Grandchildren
Kim was born May 3, 1974
Chad was born
Michelle was born
Amanda was born 3/24/1981
J.P. was born 5/5/1978
Rob was born
Michael was born
Kris was born January 9, 1978
Bancroft
Trucking
Central Transport
In
1981, Paul retired from Central Transport. His health quickly
deteriorated after retirement. A thyroid problem led to weight
gain and other health issues. In March 1987 at the age of
67, Paul suffered a heart attack and died within a couple
days.
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Guy,
08-1966
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Shirley
and Jim, 06-1969
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Paul
was an adventuresome, loving and romantic man with an infectious smile.
He enjoyed popular music, bowling, watching boxing on television and
of course, he liked his beer and Viceroy cigarettes. Most of all,
he enjoyed the company of family and friends. He was a playful, loving
father. He was fond of asking his children "Who loves who?"
to which they would respond "I love you!" |
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